Tips & Advice for Planning

Editorial, checklists and planners on every topic all in one place!

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After the wedding

Beauty

Cakes & Desserts

Ceremony

Catering

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Flowers

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The Groom

Honeymoon

Invitations

Music & Entertainment

Photography

Pre-Wedding Celebrations

Registry

Rentals

Rings

Transportation

Video

Wedding Party and Guests

Wedding Shows

Top 25 Wedding Do’s & Don’ts

Making sense of the whirlwind of emotions, decisions, and deadlines that is wedding planning!

  • DO set a realistic budget. Before booking anything, know what you can afford – and stick to it. Overspending early can create unnecessary stress later.
  • DO hire professionals. Planners, photographers, caterers – trust the pros. They’ve done this before and can save you time and headaches.
  • DO communicate with your partner. Make decisions together. Your wedding should reflect both of your personalities and priorities.
  • DO create a timeline. Map out what needs to be done and when. Spreadsheets and checklists are your best friends.
  • DO book the venue first. Your date, theme, and many other decisions hinge on your location. Secure it early.
  • DO schedule engagement photos. They’re not just cute—they help you get comfortable with your photographer before the wedding.
  • DO prioritize what matters most. Whether it’s great food, an epic dance party, or stunning florals— allocate your budget accordingly.
  • DO send save-the- dates early. Especially if you’re planning a destination wedding or expecting out-of-town guests.
  • DO build in buffer time. Things will run late. Pad your timeline so one hiccup doesn’t derail the entire day.
  • DO make a wedding website. Include key details like registry info, dress code, lodging, and timeline— it’ll save you dozens of phone calls.
  • DO rehearse. Run through the ceremony logistics. Even a quick rehearsal helps avoid awkward moments.
  • DO hire a day-of-coordinator. Even if you skip a full-service planner, someone should be in charge so you can actually enjoy the day.
  • DO soak it all in. The day will fly by. Take a few quiet moments together to breathe, smile, and remember why you’re there.
  • DON’T skip the guest list. Your guest count affects everything from your venue size to your catering costs. Start with this early.
  • DON’T rely on friends as vendors. Unless they’re in the industry, think twice. A well-meaning friend isn’t a substitute for a professional DJ or florist.
  • DON’T try to please everyone.
  • DON’T leave things to the last minute. Rush jobs lead to costly mistakes and missed opportunities— especially when it comes to popular vendors.
  • DON’T forget the weather. Especially for outdoor weddings, have a Plan B. Rain shouldn’t ruin your big day. You can’t. Focus on what matters to you as a couple and let go of trying to meet every expectation.
  • DON’T micromanage. Trust your vendors to do what you hired them for. Hovering only adds stress.
  • DON’T DIY everything. A few handmade touches? Sure. But trying to do it all yourself can lead to burnout.
  • DON’T neglect the ceremony. It’s easy to focus on the party, but the vows and moment you say “I do” deserve just as much attention.
  • DON’T overthink the favors. Guests remember the experience, not the trinkets. Keep it simple—or skip them altogether.
  • DON’T dress shop without a budget. Falling in love with a gown you can’t afford is a fast path to disappointment.
  • DON’T forget to eat. On the big day, make sure you get some real food—not just cake and champagne.
  • DON’T compare your wedding. Pinterest and Instagram are fun, but your celebration should feel like you—not someone else.